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Slothfulness Will Kill You – But Lack of Temperance Will Too

Are you a slothful person?

The Bible says that slothfulness will kill you:

The desire of the slothful killeth him; for his hands refuse to labour.

Proverbs 21:25 (KJV)

now, you might not think you’re slothful, and you might be right, but let’s take a look at the definition before we say we aren’t:

SLOTHFUL

ADJECTIVE
Lazy.

SYNONYMS
lazy – sluggish – indolent – idle – supine – slack

hmm, that’s a pretty simple definition. How about we take a quick peek at a synonym? Let’s say lazy:

LAZY

ADJECTIVE

  1. Unwilling to work or use energy: “he was too lazy to cook”.
  2. Characterized by lack of effort or activity.

SYNONYMS
idle – indolent – sluggish – slothful – slack – shiftless

do you fit into that category? Be honest with yourself, it’s only you that you’re hurting if you’re not honest. If you’re in this category it’s time to turn things around because your desires will kill you. Why? Well, quite simply because the desires of a person who is literally unwilling to work or use energy will produce nothing except one very obvious thing – many different health problems that will then take your life, likely before your time. It’s amazing how our decisions today ultimately impact us years and even decades from that decision.

But, if you’re not in that category, let’s take a look at an antonym of lazy and see if we fit in there, how about busy:

BUSY

ADJECTIVE
Having a great deal to do.

VERB
Keep occupied: “she busied herself with her new home”.

SYNONYMS
adjective. occupied – engaged – active
verb. 
occupy

and this is where it gets interesting. There is a massive gap between slothful and busy isn’t there? And this is where most of us fit in. Somewhere in between. But the problem with in between is that nothing is getting done in between. Sure, you may get a task knocked out here and there, but there isn’t really anything getting done in between is there?

The reason is because you war against yourself in between. You are struggling to suit yourself and do nothing, yet get up and do something. You haven’t made a decision yet though, so you’re not taking any action. Action, that word is an antonym to slothful isn’t it? I mean the definition for lazy literally said: “Characterized by lack of effort or activity.” So, by definition, you will not take any action if you are slothful.

I know, it’s really hard to look in the mirror on this post. See, if you haven’t made a decision to be busy and getting things done, you have effectively made a decision to be lazy and get nothing done. So, I guess as we analyze it, you have made a decision, but was it the right one? Should you be up and getting something done right now? Or should you be slothful and getting nothing done? Does NOT being slothful mean you CANNOT have any downtime?

Hmm, that last one is a good one. And I have to say, choosing not to be slothful does not mean you can’t have any downtime. You have to rest sometimes. If you get no rest, you will get even less done, because you are not in a state in which you can make good decisions. This is a fine line. But let me see if we can clear it up. The Bible says this:

And every man that striveth for the mastery is temperate in all things. Now they do it to obtain a corruptible crown; but we an incorruptible.

1 Corinthians 9:25 (KJV)

and this scripture really brings it home. Though it’s important to be busy and getting things done. You have to be temperate in all things. You can’t always be busy because you’re body is corruptible. It can break down, get tired, wear out, and even collapse if put under enough pressure.

Rather than being busy all the time, find yourself accomplishing a little every single day. Get something done every single day. And ultimately choose not to be slothful when something needs to get done.

So as a focus challenge, consciously decide to be busy today.

There Is a Fine Line Between Criticism and Condemnation

Condemnation

Have you ever had somebody condemn you for something you’ve done? It didn’t feel good did it? It feels like you have no hope past this. Like there is no reconciliation past this. Like there’s no redemption. But there may be a problem with your perception – and there may not be – let’s evaluate it!
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Obedience Will Take You Further Than Sacrifice

The Bible states that obedience is better than sacrifice (1 Samuel 15:22). This is in reference to King Saul not performing the Word of The Lord when Samuel had come to him and told him to utterly destroy the Amalekites (1 Samuel 15:3). See, King Saul had gone to destroy the Amalekites as he was told [...]

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5 Tips To Increase Your Focus

Horse With Blinders

Focusing can be hard, and to be honest each person has their own way of achieving it. The primary reason for that is because what distracts you may not distract me. However, below are 5 tips to help you increase your focus. These 5 things distract just about everybody – so they should be helpful [...]

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How To Freeze A Set Of Panes In Excel That Are Not The Top Row

Have you ever wanted to freeze the panes in an Excel document, not the top row because that’s clearly marked, but another row? Yeah, me too! The problem is that it’s really not all that intuitive and finding good tutorials on this is just about impossible. However, I’m going to give you a simple, straight-forward [...]

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Launching Windows Media Player with VB6

So for the past few days I’ve been dealing with this problem where we need to launch Windows Media Player from VB6. The fact that I’m dealing with VB6 makes me cringe alone, but then coupling that with some Shell execute commands is just … well you get the picture! So, the first step is [...]

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Focus Really Means Saying NO to the Hundred Other Good Ideas

You may have already seen this post, it was the featured post on Got My Focus On because it really speaks to what this site is all about, but even if you have I challenge you to read it again, because you’ll be able to focus better today! I’m 100% confident that if I asked you who [...]

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Being Realistic Is The Most Commonly Travelled Road To Mediocrity

Will Smith has said many times that being realistic is the most commonly traveled road to mediocrity. This quote is very intriguing, and there is a lot to break down here, but before we get into the definitions and stuff I want to ask you a question.

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Slow and Steady Wins The Race

Have you ever heard of the story The Tortoise and the Hare?  It’s a fantastic story of what actually wins the race in life.  The Bible states that the race is not given to the swift, nor to the strong (Ecclesiastes 9:11) and that we must run with patience the race that is set before us [...]

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Visual Studio 2012 UML Designer: Class Is Static Property

This post is going to cover the Is Static property of the Class object in the UML Designer in Visual Studio 2012. Though the definition of this property is much better than its counter parts Is Leaf, Is Abstract, and Is Query, it’s still really not that good: IS STATIC If True, this feature is shared [...]

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